March 2018 Snake Oil
Cheating likelihood based on a zodiac sign
I have had a lot of added work for the last few months with a total (so far) of seven appearances on the ABC syndicated show The List. The film shoots are actually fun and easy. It’s the added write up needed for each segment on the website that takes up so much extra time. Here is one of the more fun, but a bit on the salacious side, segments and the web information that went along with it:
Even though statistically the top five signs listed scored the highest on the cheating website (Ashley Madison), this astrologer does not think any sign is more likely to cheat than another. Typically men cheat more from “ego” and women for “need.” The same could be said for feminine and masculine signs in the zodiac, so that is why I listed them. Here are some possible reasons any sign might cheat, but also a few suggestions that may assist in keeping your mate happily committed.
1. Capricorn
While Capricorn is a female sign and may cheat more out of need as opposed to ego or status, they often are very aware of status and position. Capricorns negative expression of “I’m inhibited” can possibly push them into seeking out sexual experiences they may have missed in their younger years when other signs were busy “Sowing their Oat.” Experiencing the reverse element of often conservative Capricorn may also be an appeal in some respects, by going against the more natural pull of strong ethical convictions often held in life.
Be patient with Capricorn’s “can-chewing like a goat pace with things.” Find that right balance of being affectionate consistently without being smothering.
2. Aquarius
While a fixed sign (more likely to be loyal) they can be quirky and non-conformist in some respects. The influence of the ruling planet Uranus might drive them to want to shatter the normal restraints of what a traditional relationship may be. The possibility of fetish or other interests that are unique in their wiring can have them seeking out some satisfaction they may not be getting from their mate. The bucket list many people, and especially Aquarian’s have of things they always wanted to do, may also be a contributing factor.
Value Aquarius’s unique way of seeing things and acknowledge their smarts. Be committed and loving but don’t be painfully gushy with them, or expect them to be that way with you and you can often keep an Aquarius happy and loyal.
3. Pisces
Pisces is a feminine sign and likely to cheat more from need. The image of two fishing attached at the tail and pulling into opposite directions can be part of a pull toward self-defeat. A naturally compassionate sign may also be pulled into an affair to make deeper connections they may not be getting from their mate. The dreamy side of Neptune (Pisces ruling planet) may pull them to the idea that something secret, special and even mystical could be awaiting them.
Never take advantage of Pisces kindness, and understand their need for retreat to recharge and Pisces will happily make sacrifices for the one they love.
4. Taurus
This one surprises me the most! Taurus is a fixed feminine sign and likely to be very loyal. Yet, their disposition to seeking satiation and even indulgence could be an influence on why a Taurus might cheat. They typically are very sensual and the pull to touch, taste, and experience more could be a determining factor. Taurus typically seeks security but if that is not something they may feel in a relationship they could be driven to find that sense elsewhere.
Allow Taurus to indulge from time to time, and even join in! Don’t try and power play a bull and get them mad, it can take a long time to shake off! Know that in spite of everything they are usually wired to be committed.
5. Cancer
Cancer is a feminine and a water sign. Cancer is another sign that would seem unlikely to cheat. Yet, while the pull to be of service to others is strong, if they are not getting appreciation in return from a mate they may be driven to seek this from another source. Cancer’s life test is to learn to be more discerning. If they were pulled into an early marriage or commitment, and they feel a nagging sense of doubt or a need for more connection they could be led astray.
Appreciate everything Cancer does for you-say it a lot. Do things for them without them having to ask. Recognize they have very changing moods and go with the flow of their shifting emotions and Cancer will often stay around for a long time.
Now for some perspective on the remaining signs that didn’t make it on the higher percent of cheaters list:
Aries a masculine Fire sign. Once an Aries marks their territory to “claim” someone, they are unlikely to cheat. Still, Aries does often crave a new creative endeavor, or another conquest, and could cheat out of an urge for something new. Reinvent yourself from time to time to keep Aries interested. For any fire sign an occasional battle or disagreement hashed out may actually be an opportunity to clear the air in a good way.
Gemini is a masculine air sign. While Gemini is the sign of the twins it would in no way mean an inclination toward straying. That said, Gemini can juggle a lot of things in life and their innate curiosity can pull them into any different places and even people along their travels. Keep Gemini around by making them laugh, and by sharing some of their many interests. They enjoy communicating with their mates so give them what they want.
Leo is a masculine, fixed, fire sign, and likely to be one of the most loyal signs. They are a fixed sign after all, so commitment and fealty are natural traits. Still Leo needs to be appreciated, acknowledged and adored. Fail to give them that fix and they could stray. Keep your Leo by honest praise, and appreciate their talented showmanship. Treat them with chivalry or learn to adore their being chivalrous with you!
Virgo is a feminine earth sign. Virgo is a sign that is unlikely to be a cheater. They enjoy being of service to the ones they truly love. It can take a bit to get Virgo to open up and relax but they will often be in it for the long haul once they do. They like things to be tidy, clean, and you can’t get mad when they correct you. Believe it or not it is one of the ways they show love. They care enough to want to help! Give them useful practical gifts and marvel in their excellent ability to plan and research.
Libra is a masculine air sign. They are often naturally good at relationships. After all it is one of their gifts to recognize and appreciate another person’s point of view. They like the allure of commitment and will think about it with some enthusiasm. Any sign can stray and Libra may look for some magic and romance if they see it missing from their partners. Keep a Libra happy by having good taste. They like nice things and nice people. Don’t make them make all the decisions but always get their perspective on the choices you are considering, especially if it involves them.
Scorpio is a feminine water sign. They typically either commit or they don’t at all. Rarely a middle ground for Scorpio, but when they do they are usually loyal. They are reactive to power plays in relationships but often don’t see that they cause them too! A Scorpio is drawn to a little mystery in life and that could cause them to stray. Keep a Scorpio happy by being loyal and not reacting to their changing moods. They can often have a slightly dark but funny sense of humor. Appreciate this and give them a little mystery to solve from time to time.
Sagittarius is a masculine fire sign. As restless as Sagittarius can be (and the males may wait until later in life to settle down) they often have strong moral and ethical codes so they are unlikely to be cheaters. Still Sagittarius does love an adventure and they can be perpetually flirty and charming. Keep your Sagittarius around by not trying to cage them in. Let them talk a lot and appreciate their wisdom, humor and endless acquired stories.
Jim Ventura Astrologer/Navigational Consultant 2-2018
This was fun and interesting to research. I think the parts about what one can do to keep a mate would need to be balanced with the reality that often when someone cheats it is for their own reasons and there is often nothing we can do to stop this. Television demands a more limited approach to astrology because people’s attention spans are often short! The segments typically run about two minutes. Relationship astrology is far more complicated than Sun sign influences. When we look at where Venus and Mars in both signs and houses are placed in our natal chart we get a far more comprehensive idea of how we experience love. Houses 5, 7, and 8 also give us even more insight into what our gifts and challenges as individuals we are exploring in this lifetime in the arena of relationships. This month I am offering a Snake Oil subscriber discounted session option for diving more deeply into your love life, and all kinds of other areas of life as well.
Notes:
In addition to some really great opportunities in my life this year, I had a few rounds of really uncomfortable difficulties to handle this year as well. Most notably the loss of my cat. She got sick at multiple levels at the end of 2017, and by late January of this year it was really bad so I was left with the uncomfortable decision of having a vet put her down knowing she was suffering. She was about 16 years old and had a good long and happy life for a cat. Still, losing a family member human or animal is rarely if ever easy. I wrote about this experience in quite a bit more detail and will publish here in April’s newsletter. The column is called “The Right Thing To Do.” This is one my animal lover readers absolutely will not want to miss.
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Wishing everyone a great March. Spring is right around the corner. Cheers, Jimmy V
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Channeled corner. I read many, many books from different trance channelers in the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Unfortunately many of them are now out of print, but I still have a huge collection and will share some of the best material I have collected over the years.
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